God has not given us enough answers. We know what will happen to the most righteous. They will be eternal companions, they will be exalted. We know that the sons of perdition will be cast into outer darkness for eternity. We know there are three kingdoms and varying degrees within those kingdoms. What we dont know is what you have to do to qualify for each of those levels. We know that murderers will be in the lowest level of the lowest kindgom.
My biggest problem is that I think I wont be able to be exalted with my companion so the options, based upon the knowledge we have been given is that I might be allowed to exalted, but with someone else, someone I don’t know, not the one I love and have been sealed to, as other righteous couples, OR I will be assigned to some varying “lesser” level/degree. Not because of anything I have done, but, because my husband made a wrong choice. That is what is driving me insane.