My daughter is getting married in a couple of weeks. None of my first family is coming. My dad wont come, my brother who lives the closest wont come. My dad has traveled to Washington state and Californina to visit my sister and my brother. My other brother lives near him and he visits him occasionally. He has never seen my new house though even though he drives right by at least twice a year.
I dont know why he thinks he needs to shun me. I was his most loyal child all along. I was the one there no matter what he did. I continued to visit and call no matter how onery he was or hard to deal with. My siblings have all had fall outs with him. I never have. I always just loved him unconditionally and sometimes the conditions were horrendous.
Now to be shunned for some reason makes me feel hurt. I dont need this right now. I am just being abandoned on all sides.
