Comments for Someone to Talk To http://78529x.wordpress.com Someone to talk to Sat, 04 Apr 2009 16:07:56 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Is it all just a lie? by Summer in Utah http://78529x.wordpress.com/2008/05/02/is-it-all-just-a-lie/#comment-24 Summer in Utah Sat, 04 Apr 2009 16:07:56 +0000 http://78529x.wordpress.com/2008/05/02/is-it-all-just-a-lie/#comment-24 I feel your pain, I really do. In fact, I feel almost exactly as you have described. The thought of an eternity stuck in a lower degree because I didn't live "perfectly" even though I am/was a good person is agony. Sometimes I wish I hadn't even been born into the Church. But it does bring me some peace to know that I am not alone with this. So thank you. I feel your pain, I really do. In fact, I feel almost exactly as you have described. The thought of an eternity stuck in a lower degree because I didn’t live “perfectly” even though I am/was a good person is agony. Sometimes I wish I hadn’t even been born into the Church. But it does bring me some peace to know that I am not alone with this. So thank you.

]]> Comment on A Good Talk by Jay http://78529x.wordpress.com/2009/01/17/a-good-talk/#comment-23 Jay Sat, 07 Mar 2009 22:11:27 +0000 http://78529x.wordpress.com/?p=31#comment-23 I have felt the exact same way you have described in your last paragraph but there is so much to live for, don't give up. I'm making a big assumption that you are LDS. If so you should check out a site called New Order Mormon. I think you might find some support there. I have felt the exact same way you have described in your last paragraph but there is so much to live for, don’t give up. I’m making a big assumption that you are LDS. If so you should check out a site called New Order Mormon. I think you might find some support there.

]]> Comment on Prayer by wearyart http://78529x.wordpress.com/2008/05/22/17/#comment-21 wearyart Wed, 24 Sep 2008 15:37:42 +0000 http://78529x.wordpress.com/2008/05/22/17/#comment-21 NO! I don't feel God's love. I feel like God has abandoned me. I do not believe he wants me or cares what happens to me. I went to counseling and I got tired of hearing the therapist tell me "Stop feeling like that." "Stop thinking that." If I could turn it off, I would have done it years ago and saved myself a lot of pain. I have always worried about my eternal consequences. I dont know how to turn it off and not care anymore. I also believe that not worrying about it is the fastest way to wind up in hell. NO! I don’t feel God’s love. I feel like God has abandoned me. I do not believe he wants me or cares what happens to me.

I went to counseling and I got tired of hearing the therapist tell me “Stop feeling like that.” “Stop thinking that.” If I could turn it off, I would have done it years ago and saved myself a lot of pain. I have always worried about my eternal consequences. I dont know how to turn it off and not care anymore. I also believe that not worrying about it is the fastest way to wind up in hell.

]]> Comment on Prayer by kweenmama http://78529x.wordpress.com/2008/05/22/17/#comment-20 kweenmama Sun, 14 Sep 2008 05:56:56 +0000 http://78529x.wordpress.com/2008/05/22/17/#comment-20 It is good that you love your husband. That is how it should be. How much do you love yourself? And do you feel the love of God in your life? Do you FEEL His love for you? It might be a good idea for the two of you to go to counseling together. If he refuses to go maybe you should go alone so that you can sort out your feelings. Just some suggestions. You are in my thoughts and prayers. It is good that you love your husband. That is how it should be. How much do you love yourself? And do you feel the love of God in your life? Do you FEEL His love for you?

It might be a good idea for the two of you to go to counseling together. If he refuses to go maybe you should go alone so that you can sort out your feelings.

Just some suggestions. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

]]> Comment on Prayer by Price moyo http://78529x.wordpress.com/2008/05/22/17/#comment-19 Price moyo Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:16:13 +0000 http://78529x.wordpress.com/2008/05/22/17/#comment-19 Are you still there? Am going through the most difficult time in my life. I would appreciate prayers to help me Are you still there? Am going through the most difficult time in my life. I would appreciate prayers to help me

]]> Comment on Prayer by wearyart http://78529x.wordpress.com/2008/05/22/17/#comment-15 wearyart Fri, 11 Jul 2008 13:56:53 +0000 http://78529x.wordpress.com/2008/05/22/17/#comment-15 If he divorced me, i might start to feel hope again. My pain derives from the fact that I still love him dearly. He loves me. But in spite of that love, we may not be together after we die. I am filled with dread to think that I am going to be "given" to another when all I want is him. It is not fair that other righteous people get to have "their" families forever. Through no fault of my own, I will not qualify for that blessing. It is not fair. Heaven sounds like hell to me. If he divorced me, i might start to feel hope again. My pain derives from the fact that I still love him dearly. He loves me. But in spite of that love, we may not be together after we die. I am filled with dread to think that I am going to be “given” to another when all I want is him. It is not fair that other righteous people get to have “their” families forever. Through no fault of my own, I will not qualify for that blessing. It is not fair. Heaven sounds like hell to me.

]]> Comment on Prayer by kweenmama http://78529x.wordpress.com/2008/05/22/17/#comment-13 kweenmama Sat, 24 May 2008 19:44:41 +0000 http://78529x.wordpress.com/2008/05/22/17/#comment-13 I stumbled upon your blog on accident. I have read every post. I know your feelings. I know your loneliness. I experienced much of what you have--and then the ending of my first marriage as my husband sought companionship from other women. It seemed as though my pain would never end. Even now, as I look back on those days I can only describe them as dark. Dark, dark days. But, I made it through. I survived it, and now I thrive! You will too. From what I read, I can tell you are strong. Deep down inside you are strong. You will be a light to others. You have not been abandoned. Don't believe the lies of the adversary. You are not alone. Don't give up. You will survive this, and you will help others along the way. We will be judged for our own sins, not those of our spouse or our children or anyone else. The actions of a spouse CANNOT keep us out of the celestial kingdom. Individually, we work out our own salvation. You will be in my prayers. I stumbled upon your blog on accident. I have read every post. I know your feelings. I know your loneliness. I experienced much of what you have–and then the ending of my first marriage as my husband sought companionship from other women. It seemed as though my pain would never end. Even now, as I look back on those days I can only describe them as dark. Dark, dark days. But, I made it through. I survived it, and now I thrive! You will too. From what I read, I can tell you are strong. Deep down inside you are strong. You will be a light to others. You have not been abandoned. Don’t believe the lies of the adversary. You are not alone. Don’t give up. You will survive this, and you will help others along the way. We will be judged for our own sins, not those of our spouse or our children or anyone else. The actions of a spouse CANNOT keep us out of the celestial kingdom. Individually, we work out our own salvation.

You will be in my prayers.

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